on sex n love, kinky!
haha, e following will be totally NOT what e title suggest... sorri to disappoint, ple....;p
my thoughts r on this when i read an aquaintance's blog on e topic of abstinence from intimacy before marriage. e definition of intimacy can be dat grey- does e act of abstinence include kissing, hugging n other forms/displays of affection? if so, how many, including christians could have done dat?
i believe strongly in having sex only after marriage, for both faith n rational reasons. n GOD is rational, so much so dat we mortals can't understand n take a great portion of HIS teachings to e dogs n label it as 'outdated'. There is no need to test drive sexual compatability before marriage, both will reach a mutual understanding, n not to mention all e years both will have together to practise n perfect;p Anyway, u choose a person u love best to be with, not have e best sex with, rite?
Having physical intimacy too early in a relationship clouds ur judgement, because unhealthy attachment forms n ladies, in rare cases, guys (though i dun think so, lol)may find it hard to end e relationship even though its well overdue.
N for guys, in cases where pre-marital sex leads to pregnancy or abortion, not only e ladies suffer physically n emotionally, guys may also be tied down to an unhealthy relationship, feeling obligated to not leave e gal...quoting from my aquaintance's blog: "to not leave now for a next 50 years of fights n unhappiness?" but yet, can u leave now?
To further add on, i believe in the dignity n self control GOD gave man, even though we face temptation to sin. All animals feel e need to mate n procreate. But r we, as such no different from beasts that we can't control our lust n like dogs, scamper n pounce as if in heat? In e 1st place, dun even expose urself to e possiblity of temptation. In face of temptation, RUN... figuratively, n even literally if u must. Dun test GOD, urself against temptation. u will NOT make it.
However, e definition of intimacy still bugs me, even though earlier i progressed to say alot on premarital sex. Kissing n hugging as displays of affection, r they included in e definition? Frens who read my blog may wan to enlighten me...:)
should end here, this entry is getting too long...opps..:)
The Day with Harry Potter
gosh, Harry is sure FAMOUS. my fren n i actually got front row seats for e 4.00pm show when it was only 12pm when we bought e tickets. well, front row seats wouldn't have mattered if we were watching a live play rite now, but somehow front rows at movies just give u neck cramps...gee but well anything for potter...:)
wasnt exactly spectacular, or astonishingly exciting but i just got this pole in my eye...cant be helped,I love e novel series too much to talk nil bt it, with e 3rd book being my special favourite...anyway...i do think most people watched it cos they had read e novel...dat differs from Lord of e Rings in this book or movie 1st sequence; most ple watch LOTR without reading e novels...
saw a fren walking down orchard road, n i tot, should i call after her? u know dat feeling? when 2 previously remarkably close frens drifted apart, their physical distance can be neligible but their emotional distance is poles apart...n dat feeling sort of chills ur heart, n waves of emotional sparks heaves u...but u try to act cordial. n when i called her, an odd sort of familiarity comes to me..n dat feels weird...cos rem, i still have those emotion sparks traveling ard my body...i feel like giving her a hug n pushing her away at d same time...talk abt contradiction...mmm...
"People walk in n out of ur lives"...u know wat? i believe they will resurface n/or exit more than once...GOD always has plans for people...n purposes...
first log
hi, this is my 1st try at blogging. dis is jus a post from sgforums.com thats mildly tickling. just treat it as im test drivng my blog...:)
Why engineers make e best boyfriends
Let me tell you why girls should eventually marry an engineer over a Law, Management, Arts or Medical School Graduate. He has three distinct advantages over the rest of the graduates.
Advantage 1:
Secure lifestyle – An engineer boyfriend can provide you with a secure lifestyle. At 27 years old, an engineer probably has a respectable, stable job that gives him a high income to own a car, invest, have a comfortable life, and get married and buy a house too. Law graduates are still working as a lowly apprentice in a law firm, most management graduates have just failed on their first business plan, the arts graduate is still looking for a job, and the medical school graduate is still living in a hospital.
Advantage 2:
Unmatchable industriousness – An engineer boyfriend will dedicate an unimaginable amount of his time and effort to understand you. Engineers strain really hard to understand their work. You can believe that they will try really hard to understand women too, just like how they understand their work, once they believe that you are the one. So even if they don't understand you initially, they will keep on trying. Even if they still do not understand, they will figure out the correct method to keep you happy (e.g. buy diamond ring = 1 week's worth of happiness.) And once they find out the secret formula, they will just keep on repeating it so that the desired results appear. Unlike the Lawyer who will argue with you, the Management graduate who will try to control your spending, the Arts graduate who will 'change major', and the medical school graduate who will operate on you. And you know what, it's really so easy to make engineers believe that you are the 'one'. Say that you like one of their projects and they will be hooked to you forever.
Advantage 3:
An engineer boyfriend will never betray your trust. Let me first tell you what is wrong with the rest of the others - the lawyers will lie about everything, management graduates will cheat your money, the arts graduate will flirt, and you probably just look like another cadaver to the medical school graduate. Your engineer boyfriend is either too busy to have an affair, and even if he does, he is too dumb to lie to you about that. Hence, an engineer is the most secure boyfriend that you will ever find - rich enough, will keep on trying to understand and please you, has no time for affairs, and too dumb to lie to you. So girls, why procrastinate? Get an engineer as your boyfriend!
